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“As women, we’re taught not to be outspoken and to just deal with whatever is going on. While things are getting better, and my husband and I support each other, it’s still innate in my being to not take up much space or be ‘too much’ of anything.
"I felt like I had to put myself at the bottom of the pile in order for everything else to work properly.”
What’s the solution?
“I've changed so much since the sessions I can't say how much I needed them right at that moment. I'd totally given up on myself. People kept telling me I needed to find some me time, but I didn't have the energy or will to find it. But taking that time, one hour a week, was so important and by having it as four sessions over four weeks, I was able to start setting new habits.”
What the experts say
Most of the women we interviewed said that their employers were largely supportive, with flexible working being widely available. This is great to hear, but with the vast majority of these women also having to seek mental health support in order to get by, something else has to happen, or needs to change.
It is important to remember that supporting the wellbeing of parents is not an exclusively female issue. Whilst in many families mothers take on the lion’s share of mental and physical load of childcare – as evidenced in this report – that is exacerbated by the fact that employers don’t offer flexible working options for fathers.
Dr Jasmine Kelland
Associate Professor of Human Resource Management
All of the participants reported that the workshops helped them to alleviate the mum guilt they previously experienced and improve their mental health.
To find out more about the workshops offered by PoWW, visit www.plymouthwellness.com
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