The first of January is a fresh start for many in the Western world. Like the two-headed Roman god Janus, from which January gets its name, we use the start of each New Year to look back over the past year and forward into the next.
Many use the introspection, self-examination and orientation to the future to make resolutions and it is a time when people regularly join gyms and Google the term ‘diet’.
These resolutions are a recent tradition largely restricted to English-speaking countries, but fresh starts are universal and almost every culture has a date that represents an opportunity to renew control of our personal behaviour.
Many fresh starts are associated with abstinence from vices, such as quitting smoking, drinking or fatty food.
But while whole communities successfully fast for religious festivals such as Ramadan, very few people achieve their New Year’s resolutions with studies showing that only 9.2 per cent of people felt they succeeded in achieving their goal in 2017.
In fact, a third of resolutions had already failed by the middle of January. So, what makes maintaining a new year’s resolution so hard?
Part of the problem is that people are generally bad at ignoring their current state when making decisions about how they will feel in the future.
Another part of the problem is that temptations are always available, which provides added complications since we are biologically programmed to live for the present.
When you make a New Year’s resolution, you will most likely be relaxed, replete with festive food and in a holiday mood, perhaps surrounded by family and friends.
Stresses from work are likely not at the top of your mind and few of the day-to-day pressures that make these commitments difficult are present.
People also commonly underestimate the strength of the future cravings and desires that could derail their resolution, especially if they’re not presently experiencing a craving or desire or have recently over-indulged.
In essence, the so-called ‘empathy gap’ is working against you, meaning that how you feel now is stopping you empathising with your future self. So how do we overcome these obstacles and can we learn anything from, for example, Ramadan about keeping resolutions?